Yesterday was one of those days that I had hoped not to ever have again... But I am learning that though someone chooses to make my life difficult.. HOW I react to it, is what's important. I did stand my ground. I did fight for my children and I DID do it for the right reasons. Not to be spiteful, not for revenge... but simply because it's time I stood up for myself and not let anyone walk over or bully me any longer. I tried so hard not to listen to the insults (and there were MANY), I tried really hard not to throw any back (THAT WAS DIFFICULT!!) Instead I really tried to state the facts only. This is something I am trying to focus on....as I know this is only going to be more challenging!!!!!
I thank you, Diana for your listening and advice yesterday.... REALLY thank you!!! and Kellie, for not only listening but welcoming the change in plans, loving me and my kids, and helping me to forget even for just a little bit. Thank you!!!Kellie this picture is for you... this is what I was telling you about from the retreat... I really wish I was walking one now....
Last Wednesday, I was asked to come up with goals... I laughed and said can't you tell me??? I do not like this kind of stuff.. but YES, I have come up with some pretty important goals of things I need to do for me... to allow me to be healthy both mentally and physically... for not only me.. but for my children and for the relationship that I wish to have a future with... those are THREE REALLY good reasons.
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